It's 2006 and I'm still clinging to things that i am unwilling to be seperated from. But it's not very useful to me. I'm just getting myself used to it ha..haa... Or because i wanna feel the sense of possession?
Well, almost all of us have more stuff than we'll ever use. Though it can be comforting to be surrounded by things, far too often they become a source of stress, clutter, and unhappiness.
It always involve decision making when i'm getting something for myself or when i'm clearing something off myself.
Sometimes those decisions are easy and obvious, but when they're not, being willing to part with stuff requires some determination and some tough love. Anyway, i have always been giving myself alot of excuses...
"But..I may need it someday"Yeah this one is real strong point. No matter how obscure or ridiculous the things are - i'm still able to find some excuse to keep it. Such as... i may still need this drawing board, i may still need the brushes. I may still take up painting. Almost anything can qualify as potentially useful, depending how i look at it. Hence it ended up a house full of rubbish. Ha...ha..
"But I paid good money for it"
Sometimes i buy something with love at first sight. It's quite an impulsive decision. At the end of the day, i may be wondering what caught my attention to go into such hideous thing. And i couldnt explain my affection for that at the beginning.
Investing a hefty chunk of cash in something that turns out not to be as appealing or as useful as you originally thought can bring up all sorts of emotions: stress, anger, guilt, annoyance. It can also strengthen the desire to hold on to the object in question; after all, who wants to relegate a valuable object to the Goodwill pile?
"But it reminds me of a person, a place, or something memorable.. :("
Sorting through sentimental stuff requires that me to be honest, gentle, and firm with myself, all at the same time. I have to be sure about why I'm clinging to the object: is it really a reminder of a pleasant memory? Or an unpleasant one? Is it a way of escaping something difficult or unpleasant in the present? Unless it summons a positive memory--one that can't be summoned by any other means--there's a good chance the object isn't worth keeping around.
I hope i will be able to organize my old junk wisely ;)